With news about the Montgomery County Public Schools deliberating over a
progressive sexual education curriculum, and
Alito’s nomination to the Supreme Court, my thoughts on these issues and how they relate are long overdue.
There is little doubt in my mind that it is in our best interest to do what is reasonable to prevent unwanted pregnancies and births. Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner’s book
Freakonomics claims that the legalization of abortion had the biggest impact on the rapid decline of violent crime in the early 1990s. Their statistics seem to back up their claim, but the reasoning also seems intuitive – children born to parents who did not want them or were not ready for them are more likely to have troublesome lives and commit crimes.
A scary conclusion to draw from this finding is that there should be easier access to abortion*. That doesn’t sit very well with me though. Instead, I think we need to do much more to prevent the pregnancies in the first place. This is where sexual education comes in. It is completely naive and unrealistic to think that we can convince any sizeable segment of the population to abstain from sex until marriage or until ready to conceive. It is more unrealistic even than asking all Americans to give up their guns. Instead, we need to teach everyone how to be as safe as possible if they do have sex and how to prevent pregnancies.
What I do want to stress though is that any good sexual education class should stress this one thing first – the only form of truly safe sex is abstinence. In everything else there is some chance of pregnancy or transmission of STI's (I certainly don’t think we should scare anyone by over-hyping the dangers of STI’s, but people need to know the effectiveness of the preventative measures they are using).
Unfortunately, it seems like the left is only interested in protecting unrestricted access to abortions. This leaves even those in the middle a bit disturbed. Although I am pro-choice – mostly because I don’t hold to the dogmatic notion that life begins at conception – something troubles me about abortions, especially the further into the pregnancy. The left seems unwilling to concede that we should be doing all we can to decrease the number of abortions, afraid maybe that giving any ground will start a slippery slope towards the full abolition of abortions.
But the far right can be equally rigid in their belief in protecting life. Refusal to allow for an abortion when the mother’s life is in danger is absolutely absurd to me. In that situation, one life is likely to be lost and it becomes a choice over who should be saved. A decision that serious shouldn’t be outlined in a law, but flexible depending on the situation and choice of the family.
The point is that there can be middle ground on the issue of abortion and realistic approaches can be found - despite what the two extremes are saying. We can work to make abortions rare if we are committed to preventing unwanted pregnancies. And we can also limit abortions later in the term when babies begin to develop neurological functions and have the capacity to live outside the womb. But we can also allow the possibility of late term abortions to protect the mother. Conceding the middle ground should never be interpreted as losing the battle.
*Another conclusion to draw from that finding could be that more resources need to go to social programs to help children most at risk - but apparently the far right wants to protect life without trying to improve it.